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[SteveLW]

oz, and the cycle continues. After your great response over night, you send this?

Dreams are dreams. If you shouldn't react emotionally to anything SHE says or does....you certainly should not to anything you dream she says or does. I know, easier said than done. And over time it will get easier. As I've said before, your sitch is still in the infant stages. Keep working. And keep posting this stuff here.

Next time you are eating dinner with her, talk about the weather. About the tractor you fixed that day. Keep it light. Fresh. Fun. DO NOT TALK ABOUT ANYTHING HEAVY, AND CERTAINLY NOT THE R. Same rules apply, if she brings it up...listen and validate.