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[bhappy2]

Updating:

Several situations have gone by and I have not been actively updating so I thought i would share updates.

Very sad news as one of my best friends of 46 years has passed away, suddenly. It was just heartbreaking. I am devistated and just got over the wake and funeral. Very painful. The only good thing is that I was asked if I could coach his 11 year old son in soccer... I was so happy his wife asked me, I really want to be there for his family.

My wife and I have been talking as she expressed her condolences and we talked for about 15 minutes, we have talked several times in the last few weeks all pleasant. She will also help finacially with the dog. I take this one step at a time, no pressure from me at all.

She is still very slow with regards to communicating with her L and we are at an time when we are basically done with the D but she needs to confirm the agreement. So back to court we go on Aug 6th bc she wont answer the agreement. I have seen all the emails between L's and it seems my W's L is as frustrated as we are.

This was a very difficult month for me as far as losing my friend I went to visit him in the hospital and my running has been slowed. I will pick it back up tomorrow. Good thing as I was not running is D20 started running again and she keeps asking for me to start back up... I will and I hope to run a 5K with her before she returns to college.

The weather is warm here I am off for a few nights as I wait for a new truck, I may take a ride to the beach just by myself. It took two years to realize its ok to do things by yourself.

If your new on this site, I am sorry you're here, know this... it will get better with time. Listen to the vets. There is no quick fix, just GAL like crazy and amazing things will happen.