You can observe her but you just can't tie it back to she is having some drastic change.
Early on after BD my XW flirted with me, she kissed me one evening at a party and was flirting with me another time, touching up on me, etc. when we went out with friends. Called me honey, dear, etc. but it didn't mean a thing.
They have emotions, are confused as well, run hot and cold, etc. so don't take one pleasant evening and automatically assume things are turning around.
Right now you are getting scraps and your like a thirsty dog just hoping you get a sip of water.
