I just don't see why you would pay someone to coach a separation. Seems easy enough to handle. The fact that you are going makes it seem like you're desperate. If you decided you have a handle on this and don't need a separation coach, it makes you look like you are not desperate at a minimum.

When/if your W wants to work on the marriage, you'll know it!

Originally Posted by Maika
1. How many sessions do we need to improve our communication issues around the kids?


None! I think U can work on this by himself and have better results. And truly, if communication was the biggest issues, he would be better off not worrying about this divorce/separation b/c I can guarantee all this stress has not helped.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

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