In my mind I wanted her to know I knew about the other man. Lets get this straight She never said I was a terrible Husband. I was not a terrible husband, I just wasn't the good husband that I thought I was. This was my eye opener based on our discussion. If I did indeed weaken my position I only have to strengthen it again. How do I go about that?

Like I said I acted based on opinion and suggestion from another member. I will never bring up the affair again with her. Its done and only if she wants to talk about it and initiates the topic will it be discussed.


Don't count the days, make the days count.
Mohammad Ali