I noticed a response only after starting this thread. I went on advise from other DB ers on how to approach the Other man issue, now I get a response stating My approach was wrong. I cannot change the past. What is done is done. However by initiating the conversation I in fact did a 180. It was the first time I talked after thinking of what I am to say as in other times my initiating conversation was started without truly being prepared of what to say, how to say it and keeping calm and level headed.
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
