From what I am seeing you look to be in a good spot. The interaction with your W is very positive, but you see you have already somewhat started DB'ing. My WW was off and running around for a long time and our relationship was nowhere near yours.
Take this time to see that maybe some 180s will continue to have a positive affect on your relationship and GAL will make you feel better about yourself. There is no need to pressure for answers...they will come when she is ready.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019