I am one of the newer LBS's - 2.5 years into W's MLC, 11 months since I've been "out of the R", 4 months since BD and DB. Still IHS but my W is cutting bait quickly and on her way out the door soon.
This must be why they say it's not over till it's over.
One quick observation - and I dont know as much about things as others here, I'll fully admit that - but I do find it curious that this introspection only started after she heard about you and GF's trip.
