I am so happy that things are working out for you and your wife. Your posting is spot on. You have to give them lots and lots of space and time to sort things out and yes, many times over, dig deep for patience. We have no control over the duration or intensity of their journey.
Keep up the good work.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
