Hey jim......I can understand your feelings, in many ways I still love my xw. You guys have a lot of memories and history between you both. I am sure you have learned and grown a lot in the past two years. Do you think it's the idea of your xw that your in love with or is it really her, the person and all that is good and bad? If you just met her would she be the one? Do you think she is a capable of making the necessary changes and those changes will stick?
It's such a personal decision and really only one you can make.
