Jac, I am so sorry that you are going through this. Unfortunately, you are not alone. I am not sure I have any answers for you, but I am also of the mind that loving patience shows strength. I cannot detach. Everyone here says that I need to, but I am struggling with it. So instead, I just give loving patience. I really try not to pursue or pressure. I fail at this too many times for my own good. But when I stop all pursuit and pressure and just engage in loving patience, I do see my situation improve. I pray that your wife and mine come back to us.
