thanks Babe. I am really trying hard to detach and love from a distance. He has stopped picking fights and blaming me since I found out about ow and following me around I think is because he needs to talk but doesn’t know what to say. he keeps asking me what he should do still, should He leave or not etc etc I think because of my new behaviour he is expecting me to beg and thinks I’m not bothered. He is also indecisive.
Also, he asked for a hug this morning and reached out to hold my hand. I hugged him and held his hand for a minute while he shed a few tears but made sure I pulled away first. I wondered if I shouldn’t have done but then could have appeared cold.
Westo, that’s really comforted me, thank you. I have since poured all wine down the sink. I think I have cleared my chest now. I was so sure too that after weeks of doing well that I had now pushed him closer to her.
Also, an odd question but should I be doing his laundry still or not anything like that at all? Or should I let all that go too.
