So does sandis rules still apply? Does this actually make my sitch different.

Why does she think my M can be saved?

Does this change the way I behave around my W

Or what I talk about to her?

Cause as I said. The only thing missing from having a really good R right now is intimacy

Either way. I don’t want to be codependent anymore. I just don’t want to lose her. I just want to have a new better R with her.

Me 32. W. 30
T 10 years M 8
S 8

Bd 5-31-19