I feel for you , but now is the time to be strong . Make some time to do something you always wanted to do but couldn’t as you were married . Something exciting and a little crazy . You ever ridden in a rodeo ? Learnt to surf ? Scuba parachute jump ? Spent a weekend wild in the woods ? Get that sadness out , she can smell it on you . It isn’t attractive and she won’t be able to deal with it in a productive way for you . Give it a try , see what happens. Sorry babe , can’t make this week coz I’m ?!?!?!?