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[Ready2Change]

Hi Oz,

I agree with Sandi2. She is very wise. She articulates things very well.

As far as #7, balance that with talking care of things. I get home from work and relax. My lady is destessing by doing chores. A few hours later, I am doing things and she is relaxing with netflix. I always stop what I am doing and "Listen to understand" and validate with full attention when she needs to talk.


Professional help --> Get IC for you. This is very important. It is fully under your control.