I do get it. My chances are not good. I know the odds are against me However Steve told me my sitch is better than most
But that’s not what I was asking.
I was asking that if it does work. IF. Then why. How does the process work on her end? What happens to make her want to come back?
The sitches where the WAW wanted to come back were sitches where the LBH DB'd his butt off....and earned her respect back. NOTE: That means there were times she was angry and hated him...but she respected him.
Ex: The other day when she said "They invited us to swim, want to?"
You said: "I was going to check out the pottery place." Then her tone changed to irritated. And you immediately said "okay, I'll swim."
Do you think that engendered respect? Of course not! This should have been your response:
"No, I have something I want to do. But have fun. Talk later, bye!" then hung-up.
She might have been irritated and angry. But she would respect you.
R-E-S-P-E-C-T You have to command that!
YOU CANNOT NICE HER BACK
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
