What S said......here is the hard truth. Most people don't save their marriages before D. My estimation is that close to 95% or more of the people on this board end up in Divorce. I can only think of a handful of people that saved their marriages before D on this board. That is not a lot when compared to the number of people that post. However it is just an estimate because some people just stop posting.
After D I think it goes even higher. Yes, people recon after Divorce and people on this board can give examples of people they know but it is few and far between compared to the millions of people that get Divorced every year.
Truthfully it is more about your W than you. I considered myself a good DBer, LH told me I was a prodigy...lol. My XW never even sniffed in my direction once she left. You just don't really know which is why what you work on are things you would like to change about yourself and your actions should be that of a self-respecting man.
