So I understand the purpose of DBing for myself. To basically correct my own bad behaviors, to become a better more self sufficient man and to get over my W if she decides not to come back?
Right?
Can you please tell me how it works to win your W back? The ins and the outs of how it works The science behind it
It will really help me implement it
Thank you
No such thing. You are looking for the magic bullet still. You want us to say "Do XYZ, and she will come back." That doesn't exist.
And even if it did, Would you do it? Nothing worthwhile is easy. What if I told you that if you went to a lawyer today. Filed for D, then through D proceedings, got D'd. That a year from now she'd come to you wanting to get back together? Would you be willing to do all of that and wait a year? Or would you decide that was too hard, too long, and look for someone else to tell you to "wave this magic-wand" to snap your W out of it.
Here is the truth. Your sitch is stacked against you. Most of our sitches are or were. You have a lot of baggage, a lot of tough situations, a lot of bad past decisions all working against you. You have to prepare yourself for the worst. GAL. Detach. Work on your 180s.
Save yourself first. In the process she might get curious, desirous, or attracted back to you. Or she may leave for good. You are still trying to control what you cannot. And you will never be happy trying to control that which you cannot. It is virtually impossible because those things are diametrically opposed to one another.
Last edited by Steve85; 07/23/1903:23 PM.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
