Hello Job. Financially he destroyed me. I was a homemaker for the last 10 years. He washed his hands on me and the financial responsibilities of running a household. I’m fighting my way through this I just want to keep the roof over my head. I truly believe that money comes and goes. My youngest daughter ( he lives with her) is drinking and believing everything he says, to the point to normalize his affair and fighting with her oldest sister when she calls this woman a whore. My husband is playing her to the point of I see myself getting away from her just for my piece of mind.