My POV is that she's cheap and has this allusion that we are going to be friendly about it. My sitch is that she had this fantasy about me living near by, she keeps the rental unit, house goes into trust for kids, blah blah. So no L needed right? Well it could also be more devious in that she knows its a rotten deal for me. I'm giving her the benefit that she's just cheap. In any event she needs to do the work and and I'll be oh so friendly about it, but in the back end, you bet l will be using an L for advise. I will keep L from her best I can, at least until we agree and I need something drawn up. But let's see. Ball is with her. My first real 48hr of hard DB (rather soft until now) so I have NFI if she is all talk or will actually walk.
Last funny bit. Just before bed she temp checks AGAIN. "Will you do this errand for me tomorrow?". Me: "no, good night". She then does "some laundry?" and goes to bed. I feel aweful inside but find it funny because she is way off with my assertiveness. And I haven't blinked. I feel proud actually, that I actually did it.
