I initiated the conversation She denied the affair. She turned things around. I told her I cannot live with a cheater and she said I am not living with a cheater. The conversation was calm and enlightening. We did discuss why our marriage failed.
The present living arrangement will not change. We decided that it is best that we keep up appearances for the benefit of our youngest son. To disrupt his life at this time would not be proper. To have his parents apart and sell the house would be too much. Yes I buckled.
However, I also thought I could use the time until she decides to follow through as a chance to follow the divorce busting techniques and try to prevent complete marriage break down.
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
