Am I doing this right??

[Goddess8]

Yes I agree. While I don't have any issues with the occasional drink having more than a couple at a time and doing it daily isn't good.

Is it too late after the fact to enforce a boundry previously stated about the OW contact with the kids? I feel like it might be but I just found out about it. And apparently he thinks he needs to come over to help with kids while I start new job. Should I decline his help and continue to act as if I am a single parent?