New: Advice needed

[peacetoday]

One day at a time

Not sure why he is following you around. maybe he is looking for a reaction
or he is confused that you are being patient/or your new behavior
maybe he is waiting for you to beg him to stay
or wanting a fight cause he knows its a mistake-

Once he actually leaves, you can ask him to see the kids at your home only or take them alone
that they need time to heal and adjust

when you see a lawyer, he can also advise on his parental rights and the ow

hang in
In my opinion,this is the toughest time of the crises..when they leave and we become aware of the truth and the affair-
it gets better from here as we heal and find support and continue to gain strength

remember, most to all the LBS get through this and become a better person and with many many blessings