I know I cannot kick her out. I know I do not want to go, why should I? I am not the one who wants to end the marriage.All I can say is I do not want her living in the house as long as she continues to cheat. What happens next is up to her.
I know the other man. I know it takes to. SHe made her choice and if life is better with him leave. She has only stuck around because of the children That is my belief. My boys know the other man as well but i do not think they now how serious things are between them. Again when the time comes to explain to the kids, it must be an honest explanation.
I can take half the blame for the marriage issues but I will never blame myself for her cheating. This was her choice not mine. They have snuck around and have done their best to hide the affair. She will either be relieved that she does not have to sneak around anymore, but i do not believe she will be comfortable being seen in public alone together.
Have grown as a person and with the help of this site and the book, I will get through this
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
