Okay so I think I’m going to fight my urges to confront her about all this and JFDI. I think it will make things worse confronting her although the way I feel right Now I don’t really care- I really feel like I just want rid of her (if only I could bottle this feeling for those weak moments).
When she gets back I’ll be pushing her to get the house back together so it can go back up for sale. There’ll be no more family times (although I won’t cut off my nose to spite my face when it comes to spending time with the boys) and I’ll cut back what I do do her as far as is reasonably practical. I’ll also be pushing for mediation to get a financial settlement- might actually book it myself!
I’ve already stopped contacting her during the day down to the bare minimum when I need to.
