Try to take the emotions out of it in the sense that she is a band-aid. No whole, decent, self respecting woman would date a married man. She is broken and that’s why they are attracting each other. It’s a house of cards. Think of their “story” and how they met?!?! You can’t perfume or that.
He may start to pick fights to find a reason to blame you and make himself feel less guilty.
Hold your head up high, square your shoulders, protect yourself financially and via a lawyer and know that you are the prize.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
