My husband of 28 years went back to his girlfriend. She was always an uncomfortable presence during my marriage, three times caught him in emotional affairs with her on line ( she lives in Argentina). He always beg for my forgiveness I forgave him and in every occasion never look back, meaning I trust him, she was miles away, she was a fantasy, I was his wife, his rock. Now looking back things started going south way before the bomb drop, anything I was doing was ok for him. We have three grown kids and two grandkids, the kids started bothering ( he was the most affectionate person) long days away from home, no interaction with nobody at home. Fast forward he move out in Marc ( I move him out, I couldn’t take the daily distance and disrespect) to our youngest daughter ( huge mistake on my end). He was cheating with her since last year, she flew several times for intimacy, by the way she is married with a second lover in place, my husband is number 3 . I don’t know what I feel anymore, I really don’t. For long time I was “waiting “ the stages played out and for us to recombinant at the end. I trust his therapist, I’m lost. Any ideas?
