"I know what is going on and I want you out of the house by the end of the day tomorrow." I assume you've already booted her out of the MBR?
Do not be the one to bring up breaking off the affair. That is for her to decide. So for you EXECUTE #1, do not talk about it. Do not bring up #2 at all, let her bring that up.
Control what YOU can control. "I will not live in the same house as a cheater." Let her control what she can control, which is either moving out or offering to break off the affair.
Otherwise you are trying to control HER. Don't do that. That never works in these situations.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
