She already mentioned that she doesn't want lawyers involved also. I think I know one who is my friends husband, maybe I'll see if he can give me advice.
Who cares what she wants? She isn't calling the shots on this stuff. Be an alpha, take the bull by the horns. WWs always have a delusion of fast, easy, no-fuss divorces. It doesn't work that way! And when you talk to a lawyer, when she says "have you looked at the D papers yet?" When you say, "My lawyer is looking them over" the look on her face will be PRICELESS.Trust me on this.
The more you can DO (not say) to start to pop her fantasy bubble, the better.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
