Steve85, Thanks for the response. I agree, I need to reread DR over again. I was most likely in the quick fix syndrome and just wanted everything to be ok. About her getting her own apartment, she first stated "I don't feel comfortable living in this house." Than the whole secretive phone stuff, that's when EA/and or PA started to play in my head. Oh yeah, always on snapchat also. I would have to agree with needing her own place just so she can see other people. I don't see how she would just take something on like that financially when its not official yet. I do need to start GAL for myself and daughter. I just find it difficult at the moment because for the past 10 years it was just her, my daughter and I going out for anything and every little thing. She already mentioned that she doesn't want lawyers involved also. I think I know one who is my friends husband, maybe I'll see if he can give me advice.
Originally Posted by Steve85
Is there any chance that your aunt and her are lesbians?
I don't believe so. She did experiment with other females before we go married but nothing since. Its more of a distant aunt, I don't know if she is going over there to possibly see the OM - I just have no way of proving it. A part of me wants to know for sure but another don't want to know about it at all. I'm just so confused at the moment.
