Hey Gomez, sorry I don’t remember every detail of your sitch. Are you still sleeping in the MBR. If not, take the MBR back. Either way tough love should be used, especially if you have proof. Take her shyt and move it out of the MBR. If she asks why, “I will not share my bed with a cheater.”

Filing for D would be the harshest form of tough love but you may not want to do that currently. If not, don’t put up with her shyt. She is showing immense disrespect towards you. Do her no favors. Have a PMA and don’t act cold to her, but start to distance yourself from her. You should not be easily available to her right now. Go GAL as much as possible and show her that you don’t need her in your life. You deserve better.


Me: 26 W:26
T:6 M:1 S: 1
BD: 3/26/19
DBing: 4/12/19
Separation: 5/20/19
I filed: 8/7/19