Well the plot thickens. Found evidence of PA/EA and have had it out with him. He is spinning all the lines like didn’t mean for it to happen, we love each other. All that nonsense.

He is ready to leave with her (and her 2 very young children, one a baby) into the sunset and think that all will be well. What now and do I say I want to save us or just move forward and let go still. Don’t really want to give him an ultimatum as he in cloud cuckoo land.

Devastated. K