Thanks Joejoe. Dropping the rope and tough love is a given. I was more talking about specifics. Do I tell her I know what she’s been doing or is knowing for myself all I need? Do I lose my sh!t and tell her what a lying, cheating wh*re I think she is or do I simply detach without anger or fanfare and go back to looking after me and the boys. Do I tell her not to even think about meeting up with him whilst I’m away or do I go with a “do what you want I don’t give a sh!t anymore” attitude?
I’m not as upset as I was the first time I found out. This time I already thought it was happening, it just confirmed my gut feeling was right and helped me make sense of why we couldn’t make it work. Doesn’t me I don’t loathe her for it though!
