Im ok. Was depressed all day watching S1. Im starting to get back into frame. Ill get through this. I need an opinion here on moving forward. I want to take the partial buyout option of $5k up front, and roughly $40k. when the house sells potentially next spring. I'm looking to work up lawyer consultation and mediator consultations, and an MOA that stipulate this. I just want to get the f@$! away from here at this point, focus on me, and start rebuilding my life.
It's either that or option b where we stick it out until the house sells next year, BIL potentially moves in to cut costs at her request. I'm really not having any of this $hit. But half the deed is in her name and she has legal grounds to do so. She's strapped for money too so she's trying to get me to refinance with her, then we split the assets when the house sells, or she refinances, does the buyout, removes me from deed. Give up starter $5k to me with MOA contract to pay off to me once house sells. She wants to consolidate all of our joint debts too. it's confusing. Personally I want no frikkem business venture with her whatsoever. Affecting my credit. It's my fault I let her handle the bills last couple years only being somewhat aware of what was going on and signing on to her poor decisions. Even though she makes more than I do.
I just want to get out of here but also covering myself legally with my custody of my son. No BS ababdonment charges, no alimony payments and out of court CS just padding S1 food clothes and diaper bills. She can pay her own medical insurance on him.
Another thing is his birthday parties coming up in 2 months she wants to invite all of our families to it and wants a decision for me and what I want to get involved with me or not I haven't decided yet but have until tomorrow. I'm probably going to say no I'm making my own plans for him. What do you guys think about all this?
