So I spoke too soon. W decides that she's bored and calls a friend to go out to dinner. I guess she didn't want to cook. I'm to look after the kids, which I know. Bath time after movie. But she starts drawing the water and tells me to put the youngest in the bath. "The movie is over already?" She says "no". "Well I thought bath was after movie?" I say. "Fine you do it then!". She stops the bath and storms off.
So what exactly is going on here? She's lonely and mad that she didn't have the dinner she imaged with the family because her dinner plan not eventuate? Then she's upset because I go to my room and ignore her? I actually think this is it. Her poor attempt at a fight is actually much lamer than what I'm used to. Is that just an attempt to hurt me?
It's a power struggle of who is in charge, and she intends to be on top. Combine that with her thoughts mainly on herself, and you have a very unattractive female. She is impetuous.
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I do think something is going on in her head. This morning she locked herself in her room until I left with my S to go shopping. Probably crying because her phone was on the kitchen table. At least she isn't taking it out on meand keeping it contained. I'm just waiting for the "I can't live with you anymore" line or the "I need to sell the house".
The words in bold speaks loudly to me. Has this mostly been the personality you've seen in your W since marrying her?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
