To Ozman. My W got an invitation yesterday from GF where I think this all started from GF engagement party last August. She has been spending a lot of time with her and her friends and Company lately other than dresses and Bridal stuff. Is where I think she is constantly going out to cuz I know what all her other friends are typically doing. Her girlfriend sent it with no return address for future invitations for. Save the date for 2020 January. It was addressed to her maiden name so I guess the writing's on the wall. Sometimes that wedding let's see if she sleeps is anybody there or she's currently seeing anyone in the party which I suspect I can't prove. Screw it. I can't do anything about it.or control any of this but me. This stuff really is a death by a thousand paper cuts which takes a year or two to go through another year or two to recover probably.