Don't know if she is still in contact. My feeling is not or not much because I don't see her holed up in her room like before. However if I look at her provacation where she attempts to reassert her position as single, it's possible she's still in contact. Pushing me away to feel better and ease her mind. Honestly I don't know, I don't want to get worked up about it. She is wayward, her mind is all over the place. And the EA is a completely unrealistic fantasy. True or mit it changes nothing.
We had an agreement where I cook on weekends. Sometimes she breaks that plan to do something she likes. Then will turn around and say I'm not honouring my agreement. She's about to do it tomorrow. I plan let her cook if she wants but if she later says I've dropped the ball, I'll bloody remind her that this reaction is manipulative.
To be fair she cooks on weekdays and does some cleaning. It wasn't always split so she would harbour resentment over that. But I do feel her complaining is a proxy for her unhappiness. What I'm saying is that housework is split and her nature is just to complaim no matter what I do.
Last night she outGALed me with two last minute plans. She must have been feeling low. I had a great evening with kids so happy about that.
SMS, well so far no im not strong enough. I'm going to try. But her nose will be way out of joint. Oh well.
I saw on another thread you talk about family time as cake eating? I get the point about family vacays as I just came bsck from an aweful one. But can you elaborate? It it the case, only things for kids, nothing else? Or are you advocating no family outings with WW? Like no family dinners out? That wouldn't make sense because I understood kid time and family time were the one thing we should put focus on. Or maybe that was LRT where i read that.
