Faith - , So sorry you were served in such a callous manner. That, to be truthful, is a nightmare of mine. I'm sure you are in shock. You have a period of time before you have to respond. I agree that it's time to get down to business and start outlining all your finances, get copies of any important documents, and meet with an attorney ASAP. You might want to pic 2 for this week and see which one you like best.
As hard as it is, don't snoop. It will only cloud your judgement for making well-thought-out decisions.
Keep taking care of yourself, Faith. That will help you get through.
