he will and is choosing his path and you can only let go and be free and use your energy to choose your path with or without him At this point by his voice and actions it is without him
Once my XH moved out, I felt so free the energy in the home immediately shifted from dark gloomy to more positive-
It was my home, I was free to redecorate it and create new traditions and activities and friends for me and the kids-
You are still quite young- and if he cant figure things out you can and will move on-eventually
Most of us take the time needed 1-2 years to stand for our Marriage support our wayward H, and get support and counseling to grieve the loss of the family and relationship
Then we are all free to continue standing or not
each of here here probably has a little different outcome
some MLCers may try to return
Many people come to this board and them leave after time so we never really know the full sucess/failure rate of the MLCwe Hang in
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
