Ok thank you. I will read that thread when I get home R2C
So the consensus is I should not go to wedding. Go out and GAL instead
If she’s having affair then so be it? Recon or no recon?
I’m trying to pound into my brain that my relationship with her is unhealthy
How do I detach without just not caring. I’ve read the thread again and again. I just can’t get it.
Steve. I don’t cherry pick. It’s just you guys make this seem so easy and I feel stuck I’m really trying but my hugest efforts feel like nothing.
How do I let myself be ok with her laying down on her back and letting another man get on top of her
How. How do I let go. HOW do I do that and still love her HOW do I do that and feel nothing but hate
HOW!!!
It's real simple. Not at all easy but simple. You both took vows to love and cherish and honor one another and support one another in sickness and in health till death do you part. We are all human we all make mistakes and we all deserve some sort of forgiveness. If one person cannot tolerate another, and they need to leave or they need to justify their actions or they need to cheat for whatever emotional high they are chasing. Then let them go. What are you going to do? Fight them over it? Your self-respect and your self-worth and well-being is more important then the value of yourself that you have placed in this other person. Right wrong or indifferent. You learn from your mistakes and you move on. Leave them to their mess and focus on you you deserve it
