Figure out your financial status first- You definitely dont want his name on the house, and you want to make sure if you buy it-it will be only yours-
The MLCer is NOT trustworthy and he will try to take from you and his kids They get totally crazy
So my best suggestions:
Get grounded Pray to let go in thought and find peace Let him go where ever he will be living--it doesnt matter dont confront him about OW Seek a lawyer asap
with him gone the house will be quiet
Be there for the kids and to to be nuetral with any talk around H to kids Dont put him down, but be honest Dad is having a tough time...It will be best for him to leave if he feels he has to Hopefully he will work things out for himself
I am here for you always- Get support from family/friends to help with care of kids what are their ages?
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow