Originally Posted by HB_Wife
If he starts the conversation, then I should switch my question to "tell me about your day" instead of "how was your day." Or should I avoid asking this question altogether because it seems like pursuing?


I wouldn't ask questions. Listen to understand and validate.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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