He's been using WhatsApp for years, it's only the pst few months he has become obsessive. Keeping it on him at all times etc which led me to be suspicious before BD.
In the UK we have a rent to buy scheme. We rented the house as a new build 5 years ago this September and can apply to buy this year. I have checked and I can still go ahead with this alone. We live in a desirable area so renting it out down the line or selling it on would be very profitable and it would be a great investment.
I have the deposit myself in full as I started my own business this year which is going steady. It seems the other areas of my life are doing well, and its my relationship failing.
I do agree Gerda, that snooping will change nothing and likely hurt me even more.
I will take a look at Nyla's thread. He's just come home so I'll go off for now......
