Thanks kml. You are correct with everything. I graduated University pregnant with our first child then supported him to follow his dreams. I don't regret it because I love him, but he has done everything he ever wanted with a very loose leash.
I fully supported and never questioned anything. I have found myself again this year and am no longer a push over.
I would like to know all the facts and am pretty calm/laid back but If I find out there is the likely ow I don't know how to play it. If I tell him to go, he will only go to her anyway. Or do I wait till he leaves and make it known that I know - that may be the better way?
Thanks so much for the support, you are all helping me a great deal.
