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[SteveLW]

I really want to say to her

I love you and we had something awesome and we still can. I know there is something going on with OM

But if you sleep with him we are done, I will D you

I know this will not work.

I JUST WANT TO DO SOMETHING!!!! I want to knock some sense into her. To fight for her.

I have spent my whole life being passive and she knows it. How in the hell does being passive now help

Weak. Needy. Not commanding of respect.

Women are attracted to men they respect. Your efforts from this point forward should be to command her respect. You don't do that with words. You do it with action.