We have no body to babysit except her family How do I tell them I need a sitter without saying wife went to wedding without me?
WE have nobody to babysit? How do YOU tell her family? Why are you trying to help solve her problem, when the problem is how to go to a wedding with an easy-talking co-worker without you?!
This.
"Hey SiL, can you baby sit for a few hours Saturday night?"
If she says, sure. When you drop S8 and she asks "Where is W?" You say: "She went to a work wedding. I have other plans. Thanks for babysitting!"
If SiL pries more, jus say "I wasn't invited to the wedding." Leave it at that.
People aren't stupid, your SiL will start putting it together. She probably knows more than you even think already. But as CW said, that isn't your problem.
Last edited by Steve85; 07/19/1903:35 PM.
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