Midlife wife crisis8

[Wolfman]

R2C I have not read those books I definitely need to. I usually have bad stuff to talk about. I want to say I got off of one of my AD. It’s been 4 days and been doing prett good.

I realize the m is a complete lost cause. I literally get blamed for everything. I took the kids in the pool the other day. She was out for the day. So I figured the nice thing to do was to clean the filter out. So yesterday I get a text from w it says did you clean the pool filter the other day? I said yes. Her response: you put the lid on too right now it’s hard for me to take it off. No thank you just cold.

I was rereading Sandi’s post the other day about the ww. And one of the things she says is how they become cold and selfish. Man did she hit the nail on the head!!! I picked the kids up the other day from the house. I took them to get these kits how to make bracelets. They were doing that for a little while and then I had plans to take them out. I will say it was my mistake, I didn’t have them clean it all up before we left. Sure enough when I bring them back to drop them off, she brought up what a mess the table was, I apologized had the kids clean it up right away. But then she went on to say how the whole kitchen is a mess and it wasn’t that way before she left. I am going to have to take pictures when I go over. The kitchen was already a mess when I showed up but wants to blame it on me. Usually in the past I would have toook it to heart. I just validated that it must be frustrating when things are a mess. And then walked out of the room. She is trying to manipulate me into feeling bad and then cleaning up her mess. Not happening anymore. Just amazing how there is not ansingle thing in her mind I can do right.