Think ahead.....if you go to the wedding and get the proof you need. Then what? Do you stick your head in the sand and ignore? Do you take aggressive action and do what any self respecting man would do? If you dont go then what? Do you continue with the cat and mouse games, wondering, looking over her shoulder, etc. continuing to rake yourself over the emotional coals? Do you stop snooping, start to work on detaching, work on yourself, get a life, and leave her to her own mess? What's your plan?
