Thanks peace, I have a fun weekend planned with the kids. Hope you have a good one too!

Kml, I agree that he was a great candidate for mlc, I think he wasn’t bothered about fame etc but being a military man previous, it’s always been about having a goal and Challenge and now he has none.

He works full time in a “normal” job and has a new group of work mates he socialises with who I have never met. Only been in this job 8 months and he hated it until May when suddenly he loves it. Coincidence I think not (BD in May).

No debts but no real assets, only cars. We rent the house. He now plans on living with a “friend” next week before we go away as he can’t stand me at the minute and I am not the person he knows (since doing 180s) I would have always begged for him to stay if he ever threatened to leave in the past and I haven’t done that this time. I simply told him how I felt and that I wanted to save us. That was weeks ago.

I’m playing it coo and keeping calm. Think I need some stronger goals though to work towards.


K