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Oz I hate to burst your bubble but our instincts are usually correct, especially when you have been with someone this long. You know something is different and if you suspect that strongly that something is going on it probably is.

Did you see the actual text or just the contact? My WW changed OMs name in her contacts multiple times...the best was changing it to a girl's name to throw me off.

As far as the trust thing....this is my second go round in 11 years....can I ever trust her again? Unfortunately not fully after 2xs but my decision to stay is my decision. I found myself in the time while she was wayward......and I don't look at it as I won her back....I look at it as I won myself back....I like who I am again and I think that is what brought her back.

We have a different relationship so far...yeah a bit weird at times but again this is what I chose. Some people can't handle a WW and walk away. I think if I would have done that from the start I would still be the old me trying to move on...I like the new me and whatever happens in the future I can deal with now.